The 12 BIGGEST Mistakes In Dating:

1. Falling in love **

1. Falling in love too fast

You start imagining a future with a girl who barely knows you yet.

That turns into pressure, overthinking, and giving way too much energy before she’s earned it.

Slow down, bro. **

2. Thinking she’s “the one” after one good date

You get attached to potential instead of reality.

Women feel when you make them the center of your world too early — and that kills attraction instantly.

Let things build naturally. **

3. Ignoring her lack of effort

You pretend the dry replies “don’t matter,” but they do.

If you’re the only one carrying the connection, she’s not into you — you’re just convenient.

Match her energy. **

4. Trying too hard to impress her

You talk too much, brag too much, or overshare to seem interesting.

She doesn’t fall for perfection — she falls for vibe, energy, presence, and groundedness.

Be real, not performative. **

5. Being scared to show desire

Guys try to hide their attraction so they don’t look “thirsty.”

But women hate guys who act like they don’t care — they like men who make their interest obvious in a calm way.

Desire isn’t weakness. **

Most guys mess up the “turning her on” part.

They rely on looks, charm, or hope she’s in the mood… then freeze when she’s not reacting. **

If you want her to get wet FAST, crave you, and actually initiate s3x…

You need to learn how to turn her on mentally, not physically. **

That’s exactly what The STORY Method does.

It’s the easiest way to make her obsessed with you in bed.

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6. Rushing physical escalation

You’re scared she’ll lose interest, so you try to force the moment.

That makes things awkward because women need mental arousal before physical arousal.

Stop rushing. **

7. Treating her like a friend

Acting too nice, too soft, too friendly — with zero tension.

She stops seeing you as a man and starts seeing you as “safe but boring.”

Flirt more, hesitate less. **

8. Taking her dryness personally

Sometimes she’s tired, busy, or just in her own world.

Instead of panicking, stay calm and grounded — that’s what flips her energy back.

Your emotional control matters most. **

9. Thinking performance is everything

Men stress about lasting long, size, angles, positions…

But women get turned on in the mind first, not from penetration alone.

Mental stimulation > physical. **

If you want her to be dripping, shaking, begging, and unable to stop thinking about you… **

The STORY Method teaches you exactly how to activate that side of her.

Two stories you read to her → she gets insanely turned on → you stop worrying about lasting long because she’s already craving you. **

It fixes:

• performance anxiety • her lack of arousal • dead bedrooms • “she never initiates” • “she never c3ms” **

If you want s3x to be EASY…

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10. Dating without standards

You accept flakiness, bad effort, dry energy, disrespect.

When you tolerate low effort, you become low value in her eyes.

Hold your frame. **

11. Chasing after rejection

Once she shows she’s not interested, stop.

No amount of texts, calls, or effort will change how she feels.

Walk away with dignity. **

12. Expecting her to lead

Women don’t want to carry the connection.

Take initiative, make plans, be decisive — it’s attractive and calming for her.

Lead softly. **

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