• 24 Dec, 2025 *

Disclaimer & Intro

This post has been made as my notes, even though I attempt to explain what I have setup/built and how, I do not owe anyone any explanation. Do NOT expect anything.

** My blog is my garden. **

Part 1 : How to "LEARN" like a Security Engineer / CISO

I won’t waste time : if you want to be (and stay) relevant as a security engineer, treat learning as continuous, not a one-time hurdle to clear. You don’t “finish” learning security—attackers don’t, defenders can’t, and the field isn’t static for even a day. New threat? Learn it. New CNCF project? Download, build, break, repeat. If that sounds exhausting, it’s because it is. Move on if you expect a finish line. Do not think even for a second collecting certifications like pokemon is enough.

Ignore the influencer-speak/pop-culture. Here’s my actual stack:

• RFCs over blogposts: Don’t trust watered-down Medium content or hype YouTube explainers. Read the real specs—when in doubt, start with the DNS, TCP/IP, SAML, or TLS. Be the rare engineer who actually knows implementation details.

• Track every CERT and CSIRT you can find: Global threat intelligence doesn’t stop at US-CERT. Follow Germany’s BSI, JPCERT/CC, CERT-In, Poland’s CERT, even their feeds. Non-English advisories often drop IOCs/TTP long before the big news picks them up.

• Build and break everything new: Every shiny CNCF project or Github tool is fair game. Download, compile, run it on a lab VM, break it, patch it, submit a bug. You’ll find skill gaps within a weekend. Hell, maybe learn that new shiny language.

• Listen and dig: Go through every episode of Darknet Diaries, not just the popular ones—start with episode 1. Same for DEF CON and Black Hat: start from oldest, not just the latest ones. Yes, even recordings from before you were born. Old hacks teach modern tricks.

• Follow the noise, then cut through it: Watch John Hammond, Prabh Nair, and the other YT security crowd, but use them as filters for current “market fuss”—then go low-level yourself. There’s no substitute for writing bad C, poking memory in C++, writing Powershell, automating with Python, or understanding x86-64 asm.

• Be Hands-on : If you’re not building and experimenting, you’re stuck in a theory loop. Run through every CTF, lab, or bug bounty you can. Contribute a patch or write a PoC exploit—your future self will thank you.

Part 2 : How to "WORK" like a Security Engineer / CISO

Own the outcome, not just the task. In a corporate setting, visibility matters less than accountability. Track requests, deadlines, and decisions in a living document or ticketing system. When you own the outcome, you’re empowered to push back, ask clarifying questions, and reframe problems to drive real value.

Next, You want to clarify roles and expectations early. A security program thrives when responsibilities are explicit: who signs off on risk, who implements controls, who communicates changes to stakeholders. Write a short RACI for each major initiative. It reduces ambiguity and speeds execution.

Treat advisory work as a service, not a spectacle. Your safest value comes from clear recommendations, supported by data, risk context, and business impact. Present options with trade-offs, costs, and timelines. Avoid forcing a single “perfect” solution; instead, guide leadership toward informed choices.

You can also distill complex issues into actionable steps. Translate vulnerabilities and threats into prioritized backlogs: what to fix now, what to monitor, what to retire. Use business language and concrete metrics (risk score, impact, likelihood, residual risk) so nontechnical stakeholders grasp the stakes.

Now you should communicate with context, not jargon. When you brief executives or product teams, lead with business impact, then explain the technical reasoning. Use diagrams, before/after scenarios, and simple analogies. Get feedback early to align on expectations.

Build trust through consistency and transparency. Follow through on commitments, even when plans shift. If a delay or change is necessary, communicate promptly with a revised plan and rationale. Trust is earned by reliability, not brilliance alone.

Be an egoless practitioner. Security thrives when you put the organization’s interests first. A few practical habits:

Seek input from colleagues across domains; avoid “I’m right” reflexes.

Acknowledge uncertainty and decision points you don’t control.

Give credit to teammates and respect others’ constraints.

Welcome constructive criticism and be willing to adjust your stance with new evidence.

Balance advocacy with pragmatism. You will often know the ideal control; the real question is: can the business afford it now? Frame recommendations with phased roadmaps, quick wins, and long-term plans. This makes security actionable and sustainable.

Govern with repeatability. Create repeatable processes for risk assessment, incident response, and change review. Standards, checklists, and playbooks reduce drift and enable faster, safer decisions as teams scale.

Align security with product and engineering cadence. Integrate security reviews into sprint planning, release gates, and incident postmortems. When security becomes part of the workflow, ownership is naturally distributed and empowered.

Invest in continuous improvement. Treat lessons learned as a formal input to process updates. After-action reviews should result in updated controls, playbooks, and training, not just a file on a shelf.

Part 3 : How to "THINK" like a Security Engineer / CISO

Security is a deep engineering problem, not a compliance checkbox or a process flowchart. If you’re waiting until you have the title "CISO" to think like one, you’re already late. The mindset matters more than the rank.

You don’t need the title to own the vision.

And if you are a CISO/CISO-equivalent then congratulations you are already behind!

A CISO who stopped coding, stopped breaking systems, and stopped reading RFCs is a liability. They’ve become a risk translator—which has value, sure—but they’ve abandoned the technical depth that makes their decisions defensible. If your CISO can’t explain why TLS 1.2 is insufficient, why MAC policies beat RBAC in high-assurance contexts, or how eBPF changes kernel monitoring, they’re steering blind. Don’t be that person.

Here’s what separates security thinking from checkbox security:

Think in threat models, not feature lists. Every system, every integration, every new tool is an attack surface. Before adoption, ask: What’s the threat model? Who’s the adversary? What’s their budget and capability? What’s the blast radius if this fails? Map data flows, identify trust boundaries, and document assumptions. A feature roadmap without threat modeling is a roadmap for compromise.

Embrace first-principles reasoning. Don’t inherit "best practices" without understanding them. Why does your organization use a particular key derivation function? Because someone copied it from a competitor? Or because you’ve modeled the threat, calculated the entropy requirements, and validated it against your architecture? Question assumptions, trace them back to fundamentals, and rebuild your reasoning from there.

Think in systems, not silos. Security isn’t endpoint detection plus network monitoring plus access control. It’s a coordinated system where each component feeds others. A zero-trust architecture isn’t just "verify everything"—it’s about designing trust relationships, minimizing lateral movement, and detecting anomalies in real time. Understand the interdependencies.

Balance perfection with velocity. You will never achieve perfect security. The question is: what’s the acceptable risk at each stage of your roadmap? A startup with three engineers needs different controls than a Fortune 500. A greenfield microservices platform needs different controls than a legacy monolith. Think in risk quantiles, not absolutes. Good security is iterative; it evolves with threats, capabilities, and business needs.

Stay technical, always. Your job—whether you’re an IC engineer or a CISO—is to understand the systems you’re protecting at a level deep enough to make informed tradeoffs. This means reading kernel source code, understanding network protocols, debugging memory exploits, and staying current with emerging attack surfaces (cloud APIs, container runtimes, supply chain vectors). If you’re not hands-on regularly, your threat model is out of date.

Think probabilistically about risk. Security decisions live in uncertainty. You rarely have complete information. Instead of seeking "the right answer," think in probabilities: What’s the likelihood of this threat given our environment? What’s the impact if it materializes? What controls reduce probability or impact most cost-effectively? This frames security as an optimization problem, not a moral crusade.

Build repeatability into everything. Ad-hoc security is fragile. Every decision—risk assessment, incident response, code review, patch management—should have a documented process. This doesn’t mean bureaucracy; it means that when you’re under pressure, the team defaults to a proven playbook, not improvisation.

Connect security to business outcomes. A CISO who can’t translate risk into business language is ineffective. You need to know how a breach impacts revenue, compliance standing, customer trust, and operational capacity. Frame security investments in terms of risk reduction, cost avoidance, and strategic enablement. This makes security not just a cost center, but a business partner.

Challenge your own assumptions regularly. The threat landscape shifts. A control that was state-of-the-art two years ago might be obsolete now. Schedule quarterly threat model reviews. Follow CERT advisories, threat research, and emerging techniques. If your security posture hasn’t changed in a year, it’s stale.

Recognize that egoless rigor matters. Your best idea will be wrong sometimes. The best security decisions come from collaborative threat modeling, red-teaming, and peer review. Invite dissent, test your assumptions, and be willing to pivot. Security by committee is slow; security by tyrant is fragile.

A note to CISOs who’ve gone soft:

If you’re a CISO who hasn’t read a technical RFC in five years, who delegates all architecture review to junior engineers, who speaks only in risk matrices and doesn’t understand PKI or cryptographic primitives—you’re a liability. You can’t lead what you don’t understand. Your teams will sense the gap. Attackers will exploit it.

Go back to fundamentals. Pick a deep technical problem—kernel monitoring, supply chain security, cryptographic key management—and spend a month building expertise. Read the specs. Write code. Break things in a lab. You’ll make better decisions, and your team will respect the depth.

You’re a security engineer (or CISO) the moment you think like one.

The title is just paperwork. The mindset—deep technical understanding, systems thinking, probabilistic reasoning, egoless collaboration, and relentless curiosity—that’s what matters. Own it now, whether you’re an individual contributor or leading a team. Try contributing to open source or just write a blog like this one. What matters is taking initiative.

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