I Said Exactly What I Meant: NVLD and the Hidden Architecture of Marital Conflict (opens in new tab)

Monday, June 22, 2026.At some point in a long marriage, two intelligent adults find themselves arguing about the meaning of a sentence that, moments earlier, seemed incapable of producing an international incident.The scene is rarely cinematic.No one is throwing crystal stemware against a marble fireplace.Usually, someone is standing at the kitchen sink.There is unopened mail.A half-drunk cup of coffee gone cold.The dog's medication sitting beside a grocery list that includes cilantro, batter...