When an Affair Doesn't End the Marriage: Grief, Trust, and the Possibility of Repair</span#x3E; (opens in new tab)

There are losses that arrive without funerals. No casseroles appear on the doorstep. No obituary is printed. No one lowers their voice and says, "I'm so sorry for what happened." Yet a life organized around certainty quietly collapses. Affairs often belong to this category of grief. The person you love remains seated across the table. They still know how you take your coffee. They still remember the names of your children, the stories from your childhood, the private jokes accumulated over ye...