Communities of Not (opens in new tab)

There is a strange thing that happens in communities that gather around abstinence from something: identity from opposition. At their best these communities are not just negative: childfree spaces can be about autonomy, choice and acceptance, anti-car spaces about safer streets and transit, and LLM-skeptical developer spaces about the future of labor, code quality and slop1. But the thing being refused often does not go away and instead becomes the main subject of the community’s identity. Th...