The Meaning of Maturity: Ursula K. Le Guin on What It Really Takes to Grow Up (opens in new tab)

It is not merely a matter of growing bones and growing responsibilities, this business of growing up, this unfinishable project of becoming ourselves. It is less like the evolutionary diagram of the upright ape than like a Russian nesting doll, our prior selves not outgrown but integrated, forever dwelling inside the person walking this world today. One measure of maturity — perhaps the purest measure — may be the courage to put our arms around those former selves and pull them close, to take...