The Crossroads: Is Discernment Counselling Right for Your Relationship? (opens in new tab)

“I don’t know if I can do this anymore.” It is one of the heaviest sentences a person can say. Usually, by the time a couple reaches this point, they are in what we call a "Mixed-Agenda" state. One partner is "leaning out"—ready to end the relationship but perhaps feeling guilty or uncertain. The other partner is "leaning in"—desperate to save the marriage and willing to do whatever it takes.