The Invisible Backpack: Noticing the Emotional Weight You Carry (opens in new tab)

We all carry an "invisible backpack"—the unseen emotional weight of expectations, comparison, inherited burdens, and exhaustion. Author and therapist Jen Chan reflects on how these hidden loads—whether they are one-word answers from a child or the silent pressure felt as a woman and second-generation Chinese Canadian navigating the corporate world—can impact our daily lives. This post explores the common things we hold onto that may not even be ours and introduces therapy as the essential space