Why We Should Refuse to Get Into Arguments (opens in new tab)
Emotional Intelligence, Daily\. Start now: We often treat an argument as a sincere debate about a specific issue—a career choice, a messy kitchen, or a perceived slight\. But this film suggests that most arguments are actually \"emotional dragnets\.\" When others goad us into a fight, they aren't looking for a resolution; they are looking for a receptacle for their own internal aggression and despair\. Discover why the most \"grown-up\" thing you can do is recognize the trap and simply refus...
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