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My early 20s have been a lot.[citation needed]

I grew up in the Bay, and so coming back here for my PhD has brought out my inner child in ways I’m continuing to grapple with and process. On top of that, building a new support network and finding my communities here has been incredibly rewarding, but also scary and anxiety-inducing at times—what if folks don’t like me or get a bad impression of me? This is while I’ve also been navigating how to maintain my existing now-long-distance friendships and grow them beyond catching up once every quarter. And realizing self-actualization in this space—reconnecting with my cultural background and interrogating the politics and vibes of my research work—has been a lot too.

These large-scale concerns create a deluge of little things I need to…

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