I Married My Best Friend to Shut My Parents Up

by Kodama Naoko

2019

I kind of love the trend of Japanese fiction with long, descriptive titles. I Married My Best Friend to Shut My Parents Up is a standalone manga about two young women who are friends who make a marriage of convenience, and I know you’re not going to believe this because such a story has never been told before, but after awhile of living together as roommates, they slowly, awkwardly start to develop romantic feelings for each other. The closest thing to a twist here is that one of them is already an out lesbian and has some feelings from the start.

Machi has a job in a corporate office. She works hard, has no interest in dating, and imagines herself living alone in the future. Her biggest problem is that her parents keep pressuring her to get married and have kids. She’s lied to them and said she has a boyfriend, but that hasn’t helped, and she doesn’t want a real one. She wishes she could have a sham marriage just to stop them talking about it!

As luck would have it, Machi tells all these thoughts to Hana, her friend since high school. Hana is a couple years younger and wants to be an artist, and she’s about to be evicted because her apartment building wants to upgrade. Hana suggests they help each other out. Machi will convince her parents to leave her alone, and Hana will have a chance to save up money and work on her freelancing by moving in. And same-sex civil partnerships are legal in their prefecture...

In general, I think Hana gets the better end of this bargain. She really is able to build up her artistic career, and she is very fond of her ‘senpai’ who she used to have a crush on back in high school. What Machi gets is an excuse for a blowout fight that lets her completely cut off contact with her parents, and to feel secretly smug when her male coworkers talk about wanting to marry their girlfriends.

But neither of them seems to expect how it’ll affect them emotionally. Machi’s spent her whole life being pressured to achieve certain visible markers of success by her parents, and meanwhile her boss assumes she’ll quit when she becomes a wife or mother, so why bother promoting her? Seeing Hana do something she likes and cares about inspires Machi to try to get ahead at the office by taking on more ambitious projecs. And while Hana likes living with her friend, the marriage of convenience rekindles some rather inconvenient older feelings. It’s hard being close to someone you’re romantically interested in who doesn’t like you back, and every time Hana expresses that interest, Machi rebuffs her and seems disgusted, which, you know, hurts. Hana doesn’t like that she feels like a creep whenever she flirts, and decides that it’ll be healthier for herself to try moving on.

Machi is our viewpoint character, and we follow her more closely. We see her warm up to Hana, and come to rely on her as a housemate. It’s Hana finally saving enough money to get an apartment on her own again that forces Machi to admit what she’s started to feel, and even when she does, Hana is worried that it’s going to be hard to have a relationship with someone who doesn’t really want to kiss or touch her. But she agrees to give it a try.

This is a pretty short one, told in three chapters. I’m not sure if Machi is asexual - she doesn’t think of herself that way, but she also doesn’t seem to be attracted to men, and her feelings for Hana are more platonic than physical. I think if I want to see a similar style of relationship, I could try reading the series How Do We Relationship?

I think the thing author Kodama Naoko does best here is to use little flashbacks to show us Machi thinking about earlier incidents and gaining new perspective on them. I haven’t read many fake dating romances, but the decision to have Hana know she’s a lesbian, to have her attraction be part of her identity and not solely a consequence of her situation is an important part of the plot, and I think it might be a bit different from the typical.